6 ways to make that special person fall helplessly in love with you.
About two weeks ago, we did a feature on dating a Ghanaian man (in case you missed it click on the link some things to avoid if you want to date a Ghanaian man) and thanks to the positive feedback, we take a look at another mouth watering topic for the consumption of your love life.
Some say it is almost impossible to make someone fall in love with you because, well, the heart wants what it wants and I totally agree. However, there are many ways to make someone genuinely have feeling towards you, especially when an attraction has already been established. Every human naturally desires that connection with a special someone and there are certain ways to activate that side of the brain that makes someone want you every single day of their existence. Falling in love and developing attraction are two different things but aim at the same results. If you have found someone whom your heart desires, there are ways to grow that attraction and if you're lucky, make them fall helplessly in love with you.
With the help of Beatrice Jones and from personal experience, The EKOsystem presents 6 ways to make someone fall in love with you:
1. Be authentic; don’t change who you are
The popular belief is becoming someone else will make you more suitable for the person who you're interested in. First of all, if the person you desire requires you to change anything about yourself then you should know instantly, they don't deserve you. In most healthy relationships, showing your true, authentic self is the first way to plant yourself in the heart of your crush. What you should bother about is developing that self to the best version it can possibly be. So, never change who your are, instead develop yourself and become the magic in someone's heart.
2. Earn their trust.
The foundation of every relationship is trust. Once it is broken, it is almost impossible to be regained. To earn trust, be truthful to them in all circumstances, let their secrets be safe with you, be there for them almost every time they need you. Be a reliable person because when you say you will do something and you don’t, you teach others including yourself that you can’t be trusted.
The foundation of every relationship is trust. Once it is broken, it is almost impossible to be regained. To earn trust, be truthful to them in all circumstances, let their secrets be safe with you, be there for them almost every time they need you. Be a reliable person because when you say you will do something and you don’t, you teach others including yourself that you can’t be trusted.
Everyone always comes back for more if the food is really tasty or if the fun experience was fulfilling, works same for relationships. If someone makes you genuinely happy then you want to be around them all the time and so if you make someone's heart dance every time they are around you, it won't take long for them to decide they need you in their life, long time.
I’ve grown to realize that, saying even a simple ‘thank you’ can make someone’s day, so why won’t you try it on someone you love. Make them feel special, appreciate every little effort they make, tell them how beautiful/ handsome they look every now and them. To make someone have a feeling that they play an important role in your life will make them want to do more.
5. Make constant eye contact
They say the eyes are the windows of the soul, if you desire a genuine connection with someone then let your eyes do the talking. Look frequently into their eyes when they're talking to you, though it can be awkward atimes hahaha. You can activate the most powerful force in the entire universe by looking deep into your lover's eyes, what are you waiting for?
They say the eyes are the windows of the soul, if you desire a genuine connection with someone then let your eyes do the talking. Look frequently into their eyes when they're talking to you, though it can be awkward atimes hahaha. You can activate the most powerful force in the entire universe by looking deep into your lover's eyes, what are you waiting for?
6. Make your feelings known
Bottling up your emotions is not good for your health and neither is it helpful to someone you want to stay committed to. In fact, if you play your cards right, opening up about your feelings might just be the key to showing the person you are worth it after all. Sometimes, people make the mistake of thinking they are feeling attracted to the person alone and until they open up, they realize the other person feels the same way, they were just shy to mention. So, speak up as much you can. What's the worst that can happen?
I hope you enjoyed it. Now go out there and make them fall for you. Have any comments? Let's have them below
Nice piece ,
ReplyDeleteI love the eye contact part, I'll surely try it out.
Thank You.
hahahah sure!
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